October 07, 1922 ~ April 09, 2025
Mom died of old age. She lived an amazing 102 years 6 months and 2 days. Her body parts just quit working.
Shirley was born on October 7, 1922 in Hugo, Colorado, to Ember and Agnes Sterling. She spent her early years in Hugo and graduated from Hugo High school.
She attended nursing school at the University of Colorado in Boulder.
Shirley preferred to spend her own money. When she was a child she got an allowance which she used to buy penny candy. Soon she was selling angel food cakes that she baked. After high school she worked as a telephone operator at a switch board. Some years ago she got a cellphone so she could be like everyone else. When she was in college she worked as a server in the dorm cafeteria. In Albuquerque Shirley worked on election boards and sold cosmetics.
During her time at CU while planning a dance for the “barbarians” (students who did not belong to a sorority or fraternity) she met Charles McKeever. They discovered that they shared the same birthdate exactly one year apart. Charles was the man with whom Shirley celebrated almost 72 years of marriage. (Mom was mad at Dad for dying just before their anniversary).
In the first 10 years of their marriage they moved 10 times and lived in 10 different houses. They went wherever Chuck’s job took them. Eventually Chuck got a good job in Albuquerque, New Mexico and they stayed there in the same house for more than 40 years.
Shirley worked from home; reared 4 children, worked with the Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts, founded and led choirs in our Church and participated in more than one Church dinner. Her true musical love was four part harmony in Sweet Adelines. She joined a chorus and a quartet in Albuquerque. In both the chorus and the quartet she competed in many tournaments across the southwest. One tournament win got her an opportunity to sing in Carnegie Hall in New York.
After all of her children were grown and flown Shirley decided she wanted to live near her mother who still lived in Hugo in the same house. Shirley and Chuck decided Longmont was a good place.
Fortunately for her children Shirley and Chuck enjoyed playing games. Especially card games. In Albuquerque they would host occasional bridge nights, making sure the children were occupied and entertained with their own games like Uncle Wigley or Chutes and Ladders. In Longmont they continued to play bridge, sometimes out with each other in a bridge group and then later Mom joined a ladies bridge group and would host games at her home.
Due to Chuck’s habit of walking the neighborhood every day and making friends with the people he ran into, Shirley had the benefit of great neighborly care. Her trash cans were put out and taken back in, her mail brought to her front door from her mailbox on the sidewalk, her newspaper brought up to her front porch and a new hairdo once in a while. Thanks to her daughter, Shirley got out of her house to go look at birds and flowers, which she loved to do, and occasionally out for Sunday dinner with her family.
With her passing an era ends. Her life spanned from one pandemic to the next, she bore witness to prohibition, flapper dresses, the dust bowl, the Great Depression, WWII, the infamous 'I Have a Dream' speech, the assassination of JFK, Neil Armstrong’s moon walk, the Vietnam War, the Cold War, 9/11, Korea, Afghanistan, Iraq and who knows what else. Technology boomed as we explored space, discovered nuclear technology and developed AI.
Shirley is survived by 2 siblings, 3 children, 2 grandchildren, 2 great grandchildren and more cousins, nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles than one person can count. Predeceased include her husband, one child, one sister and one brother.